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Redefining Relationships
FIND CLARITY, BUILD CONNECTION & CREATE A FULFILLING LIFE
Struggling in your relationship? Feeling stuck and unsure if things can change?
As a Certified Relationship & Divorce Coach, I help people navigate the crossroads of their relationships—whether that means rebuilding a stronger marriage or preparing for a healthy, intentional separation.
You deserve a life filled with connection, joy, and clarity. Let’s find the path that’s right for you—together.
How 1:1 Coaching Can Help You
GAIN CLARITY & TAKE ACTION
Feeling stuck? Whether you're working to strengthen your marriage or considering a new path, I’ll help you gain self-awareness, identify your options, and take confident action. With the right support, you can move forward with clarity, purpose, and peace—no matter what you choose.
FOSTER RESILIENCE & SELF-RELIANCE
True strength comes from within. Learn how to shift your mindset, develop new perspectives, and embrace challenges as opportunities for personal growth. No matter where your relationship journey takes you, you can build confidence, resilience, and a fulfilling future.
MAKE DECISIONS WITH CONFIDENCE
Uncertainty is part of every big life decision—but fear doesn’t have to control you. Learn how to take decisive action, trust yourself, and move forward with clarity. Whether you're choosing to stay in your marriage or preparing for change, I’ll help you take the next step with confidence.
GET ORGANIZED & STAY PREPARED
Having a clear plan can make all the difference. Identify your goals, values, and priorities—then create a roadmap to get there. Whether it’s improving your relationship, navigating tough conversations, or preparing for transition, I’ll help you focus on what truly matters.
BUILD STRONGER COMMUNICATION & CONNECTION
Good relationships start with great communication. Learn how to express yourself clearly, set healthy boundaries, and listen to understand. Whether it’s with your spouse, your children, or even your ex-partner, I’ll help you foster better conversations and deeper connections.
You don’t have to figure this out alone. I’ll guide you through your journey—whether that means rebuilding your marriage or preparing for a new beginning. You’ll feel seen, heard, and supported as you gain the tools to create a life and relationships that feel truly aligned with you.
...rooted in the principles of awareness, self discipline, and action.
...step into an exciting life of love, generosity, and joy.
Trusted By
MEET YOUR GUIDE TO RELATIONSHIP CLARITY & CONFIDENCE
Wendy Rovers, Certified Relationship & Divorce Coach®
Welcome to Redefining Relationships, a space where transformation, clarity, and empowerment come first—whether you’re working on your marriage or preparing for a new chapter.
I founded this practice because I know how overwhelming it feels to be stuck in uncertainty, wondering what’s best for you and your family. You don’t have to navigate this alone. This is a time for growth, self-discovery, and making empowered choices. With the right support, you can break free from doubt, gain confidence, and create a future that aligns with your values.
Whether you’re looking to rebuild your relationship, improve communication, or transition through divorce with clarity, I’m here to guide you every step of the way.
Together, we’ll uncover the path that’s right for you.
Brief part of my Story...
I Learned how to tune out the noise and listen to my inner wisdom
"Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life." — J.K. Rowling
28 years ago I knew I was married to the wrong person. For seven years, I wrestled with the deep conflict between my unwavering belief in marriage, my immense love for my boys, and the undeniable unhappiness in my relationship with my husband.
Over time, the stress kept building, and I realized that the loving relationship I wanted to model for my boys was no longer possible. I knew divorce was best for me and for my family. It was the most difficult decision I have ever made.
And it was at rock bottom that I began to rebuild my life. I climbed my way out of the pit. I developed new perspectives and habits, studied the science, read a lot of books, and discovered a path to living a fulfilled life; one of greater happiness, joy, and love, and one with a sense of purpose and peace. Through my training, I began working with other people struggling in their relationships with the same personal issues of overwhelm, isolation, unhappiness, and loss of themselves. I believe in relationships. I believe in love. Sixteen years ago, I married Dave; we have a blended family of seven boys and life is getting better and better every year.
My Approach
Coaching with Heart & Strategy—Because Your Journey is Unique
My coaching philosophy is built on clarity, self-awareness, and intentional action. Whether you’re working to strengthen your relationship or preparing for a new chapter, I’ll help you shift your perspective, challenge limiting beliefs, and create a plan that aligns with your values.
We won’t just reflect on where you’ve been—we’ll focus on where you’re going.
Two Ways to Find Clarity, Confidence, and Connection
Whether you’re working to rebuild your relationship or navigating the transition of divorce, Redefining Relationships provides the support, tools, and guidance to help you move forward with clarity and confidence. Choose the path that aligns with where you are in your journey.
Relationship Coaching
STRENGTHEN YOUR CONNECTION, IMPROVE COMMUNICATION, AND REDISCOVER FULFILLMENT
If your relationship feels disconnected, strained, or uncertain, relationship coaching helps you gain clarity, rebuild trust, and create a stronger foundation for your partnership.
Whether you’re navigating challenges, questioning your future together, or simply seeking a healthier dynamic, this coaching provides the tools to improve communication, deepen emotional connection, and help you make intentional choices about your relationship.
If you’re asking "Can this relationship work?"—relationship coaching can help you find the answer.
Divorce Coaching
NAVIGATE DIVORCE WITH CLARITY, STRENGTH, AND CONFIDENCE
If you’ve made the decision to divorce or are in the early stages of separation, divorce coaching provides practical guidance, emotional support, and a structured plan to help you move through this transition with confidence.
From managing co-parenting and legal considerations to processing emotions and rebuilding your life, this coaching empowers you to take control of your next chapter—so you can move forward with peace, purpose, and resilience.
If you’re asking "How do I move forward?"—divorce coaching is here to support you.
Navigate these Relationship Challenges with Clarity & Confidence
Deciding whether to stay in your marriage or move forward on a different path isn’t just a legal or logistical decision—it’s an emotional journey that impacts every part of your life. The uncertainty, the fear, the weight of responsibility can feel overwhelming.
I help you move through this process with clarity, intention, and support. Whether you’re working to strengthen your relationship or preparing for a transition, I provide the guidance and tools you need to face challenges with confidence and create a future that feels right for you.
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What is coaching?Coaching is a supportive, forward-focused partnership that helps you reconnect with your own wisdom, gain clarity, and create meaningful change in your life and relationships. It’s not about fixing you—it’s about helping you see that you’re not broken. As your coach, I won’t give you all the answers. Instead, I’ll help you slow down, get curious, and see beyond the noise and overthinking that’s been keeping you stuck. From that grounded place, you’ll make better decisions, communicate more clearly, and show up more fully—for yourself and the people you care about. Coaching is practical, powerful, and rooted in the belief that you already have everything you need. Sometimes, you just need someone to help you see it.
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How is coaching different than therapy and counselling?Therapy and counselling often focus on healing the past, treating mental health concerns, or understanding how past experiences impact your present. Coaching with Wendy is about looking in a new direction—one that’s grounded in the present moment and the belief that you are already whole, resilient, and capable. I’m not here to analyze or diagnose you. I’m here to help you quiet the mental noise, reconnect with your innate wisdom, and see your challenges with greater clarity and perspective. This work doesn’t require years of digging through your past. Instead, it reveals that insight, peace, and change are available to you right now. When you begin to understand how your thoughts create your experience moment to moment, you naturally begin to shift—from overwhelm to ease, from fear to freedom, from conflict to connection. It’s not about coping better. It’s about seeing differently. And that changes everything.
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How long does the coaching last?Coaching isn’t one-size-fits-all—it’s about what works best for you. Some clients come for short-term support—maybe a few sessions to get clarity on a specific challenge. Others choose to work together for several months or more as they navigate deeper transitions, like improving a relationship, moving through a divorce, or reconnecting with themselves. Most of my coaching programs begin with a 2-day immersion followed by 3 months of 1:1 support, because lasting change takes some time, insight, and practice. But we’ll always tailor the experience to your needs, your pace, and your goals. You're never locked in—but you’ll likely find that once you start seeing differently, you’ll want to keep building on that momentum.
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What if I’m just considering divorce?That’s exactly the right time to work with a coach. You don’t need to have all the answers right now. In fact, this in-between space—when you’re unsure, overwhelmed, or silently wrestling with “Should I stay or should I go?”—is where coaching can be most powerful. We’ll create a calm, non-judgmental space where you can hear yourself think, explore your options, reconnect with your inner wisdom, and make decisions that align with your values and your future. No pressure. No agenda. Just clarity, support, and real conversations to help you feel steady and strong—whatever you decide.
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Are my conversations confidential?Yes, 100%. Everything you share in our coaching sessions is completely confidential. This is your safe space—to explore, reflect, question, and express whatever’s on your heart or mind without fear of judgment or concern about it being shared. I hold your trust with deep respect. Your privacy, emotional safety, and well-being are my highest priorities.
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What if I need to speak with you in between our sessions?You’re not alone between sessions. Coaching isn’t just a once-every-two-weeks conversation—it’s ongoing support. You'll have access to on-the-spot support between sessions for those moments when you’re feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or need a little clarity or encouragement. You can reach out by voice message, text, or email, and I’ll respond within an agreed timeframe. Sometimes one insight or reminder in the moment can shift everything—and I’m here for that.
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Will there be work to do between sessions?What you do between sessions matters more than our conversations. This is a time for you to be open and willing to try new things, to take action, and to show up in your life in a way that is true to who you are. Together we will decide the best way to move forward. This may include books to read, podcasts to listen to, informal assignments to gain clarity around an area in your life that you would like to change, practicing communication skills, etc. We will work together to meet your objectives and create action steps to get there.
YOU ARE MEANT FOR MORE.
Transform through Transition
NAVIGATE DIVORCE WITH CONFIDENCE AND LOVE
Curious about the unique challenges you’ll encounter during separation and divorce? Join our FREE course: "7 Divorce Challenges & 7 Solutions." Gain access to proven strategies that have empowered countless individuals to regain control of their lives. This course offers valuable expert insights and practical steps tailored to support you through this pivotal time, providing clarity on the obstacles divorce brings and ways to navigate them effectively.
